Coaching 101 and the Power of Seeing the Bigger Picture

Dan Lovekamp, Director of Training, Auffenberg Dealer Group

Dan Lovekamp, Director of Training, Auffenberg Dealer Group

Dan Lovekamp was blessed to grow up in a small community where he played sports and learned the value of teamwork and culture. For over forty years, he has applied those lessons to build a successful career as a consultant and trainer. His background spans sales, sales management, general management, finance and insurance, training and consulting for small and medium-sized businesses. As his life matures, Lovekamp treasures the simple things—time spent with his wife Sally, pup Hotch and grandkids.

Through this article, Lovekamp highlights how situational awareness enhances our ability to read subtle cues, build empathy and adapt communication for stronger relationships. He emphasizes that success in any field ultimately comes down to understanding and connecting with people.

Have you ever been in a situation where you were so focused on the details that you could not see the big picture? You’ve come across someone who has a singular focus on a small but unimportant detail. In my experience, we can sometimes get fixated on something and completely miss the bigger picture. For all those in whatever industry you are in, here is a fun fact: We are all in the people business. And the little things do matter.

Situational awareness or the ability to perceive, comprehend and project information about a situation plays a vital role in shaping our view of people and influencing our interactions with them.

Here is how—7 percent words, 38 percent tone & inflection, 55 percent body language

Enhanced Perception of Cues

Situational awareness helps us become more attuned to subtle cues such as body language, facial expressions and tone of voice. This provides a deeper understanding of a person’s emotional state, intentions and perspectives beyond their words. Contextual understanding is being aware of the intent of an interaction which helps us interpret verbal and non-verbal signals more accurately. For example, recognizing an ambiguous facial expression in a sad context versus a happy context allows us to infer the person’s true emotion more effectively. Most of these cues go unnoticed.

Increased Empathy and Understanding

Situational awareness facilitates a deeper understanding of others’ emotions and perspectives, thereby fostering empathy and connection. Responding in a more compassionate and supportive manner is possible by being aware of someone’s emotional state. Stronger relationships are created by connecting with others on a deeper level. Someone is more likely to communicate with you if they believe you have a sincere desire to create a meaningful connection.

Improved Communication and Interaction

To communicate more effectively, we adapt to a communication style that allows us to respond appropriately by understanding others’ needs and emotions. Positive relationships can be created by doing this, which leads to more effective communication and problem-solving. Adapting behavior and responses to different social contexts is enabled by situational awareness. Future actions or outcomes can be anticipated by understanding the current situation and the information gathered from others. Behavior and responses can be adjusted accordingly. For example, recognizing someone’s discomfort can help adjust behavior to make them feel more at ease. Situational awareness allows a more nuanced and accurate view of people’s thoughts, feelings and intentions within a given context, moving beyond a superficial understanding. This leads to improved communication, stronger relationships and more successful social interactions.

In nearly five decades, I’ve learned that my success or failure is directly attributable to my ability to continue to improve my communication skills.